July 21st, 2011
Hi Jamie,
I recently saw your latest Dear Brigsby post. I think it’s such a sweet and wonderful idea to have people share their advice, experiences and hopes with your child. Because whether we want to admit it or not we, as parents, don’t always have all the right answers or all the right advice. Sometimes other people give our children just the right nugget of truth that they need in life. So I’d love to share a little something with your sweet little boy! - Alaythea
Dear Brigsby,
One of the things I’m learning a little late in life is that this life is what you choose to make it. And beyond anything you have to choose to be happy! And to be honest, it’s not alway easy in the world we live in today. Things aren’t always right, not always fair, not always what you dreamed but if you make a conscious effort to truly be happy, no matter what your situation, it’s going to take you very far in life. People love happy people! And no matter how bad things may seem at some points you can always find something to be grateful and happy about. Be the light everyone wants and needs, bring joy to the lives of those you touch and you will have the biggest impact of all!
Happy growing, little man!
The invitation is still open…if there is anything you would like B to read one day when he’s older, something you never got to tell your own baby, something you’ve always thought but never said…go ahead and send it to me and I promise you B will read it one day.
Posted in Dear Brigsby
July 14th, 2011
Dear Brigsby,
You are definitely one of the luckiest babies on the planet. You have so many people that love you so unconditionally, including Matthew and I. I was so excited when your Mom got pregnant, now Mikaela and Clay will have a playmate. Your parents have been incredibly good friends to us throughout the years and I can’t wait to watch our families grow together. I see us vacationing together, all three of you running around on the beach, your Dad and Matthew grilling on a patio and your Mom and I talking in the kitchen.
Over the past six months I have seen your mother’s burning love for you and she has taught me so much, even though I became a mother before her. She has taught me that it’s ok to get frustrated and it’s ok to have bad days, because at the end of the day, love is what we have and it will shine through. I pray that you always recognize what an amazing life you have and what amazing people you have in it!
Love you B,
Cori
Posted in Dear Brigsby
July 7th, 2011
Jamie,
I am writing to you to express my sheer gratitude for helping me see that life can be beautiful, even in it’s gritty moments. My name is Carmen and I’ve been reading your blog since sometime in April when I stumbled upon it. Perhaps I should explain a bit. I suffer from bipolar disorder and many of my days are spent just searching for a little bit of peace in this crazy world. Reading your stories of trials in your life and how the pages turned to show a brighter side have brightened me, as well. I love the sweet pictures of Brigsby, the food, the decorating, the good and the bad, it’s so inspiring! I read your post explaining the letters you asked people to write to Brigsby. I hope you’ll accept mine, as well.
Dearest Brigsby,
You don’t know me but that’s ok. Sometimes strangers can inspire us more than those closest to us and that’s what I hope I can do for you. You will have trials throughout your life. Some good, some bad. Some just completely unfair. If you ever feel like things are just awful, I hope that you’ll try something that your mother helped me do: find something that inspires you. Read a book, take a picture, go for a walk, or just dance to your own heartbeat. Never be idle in your own life. Always keep your family in your heart. And listen to your mother. She’s taught me to enjoy life’s simple moments. She’s bound to do the same for you.
Bunches of Wishes,
Carmen
The invitation is still open…if there is anything you would like B to read one day when he’s older, something you never got to tell your own baby, something you’ve always thought but never said…go ahead and send it to me and I promise you B will read it one day. This letter struck a particular cord with me, and like Carmen said, “sometimes sharing personal issues can help others connect and gather hope…”
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